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What's in a Date?

Okay so today we celebrate the last sequential date in this century, 11-12-13. 
It's the last date with consecutive numbers to appear in the 21st century, but why the hype? 
Did they forget that every damn date in this century will never repeat itself? 
Or is this just another money-minting criteria adopted by hotels, hospitals, bars, wedding planners and pandit ji's to brainwash people's minds and inform them about the importance of this one date? 
Why the craze to tie the knot on this so called 'auspicious' date? Why the craze to deliver babies on this day? Are you going to tell me that its a 'lucky' day and will make your marriage last a year more than mine? Or your baby will be born an actor or IITian? Or probably that the food at restaurants will be better today? 
Hell, no. If love doesn't see person or time, why does it see dates? Ladies, If babies born on other dates can become Shahrukh Khan and Sachin Tendulkar, why the fuss about paining your bodies to forcefully deliver today?
For as long as the 'luck' factor goes, it's all in the mind. And in your stars.
If you start believing, even tomorrow will be as 'lucky' as today, and dates will stop existing as a landmark of your lives. 
And when it's about having fun, I don't think it requires a clichéd one-day celebration. 
Think closely, your entire life is a big party, only you have to prepare for the blast. 
So, blow the balloons, light the candles, pour a glass of wine and enjoy the BIGGER party!  




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