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Never Again - A Lesson

Experience, my friend, is the best teacher. Time, equally so. My parents tell me that I don't need to make the same mistakes that they made, in order to learn. So, I make mistakes of my own, then regret making them and take lessons from each one of them. So, here goes.

  1. Don't let anyone treat you like their booty call. You're definitely not it. Unless you believe in that kind of a thing, then you might as well be one, I guess. There are far better things you can be, than a booty call for some jerk. Most importantly, don't be your ex's booty call. Period.

  2. Never give in to lust. It always screws things up. For you, to say the least. They say, lust is one of the deadly sins; today I understand why. It will destroy you mentally, steal your piece of mind and wreck you emotionally. It is not everybody's cup of tea. Don't say you weren't warned.

  3. Do not tolerate nuisance. Not from anyone. Make sure the line is never crossed. What's off limits, should remain so, come what may. Do not tolerate any kind of humiliation or insult. Pay back, always. It's never okay to be a submissive. Take shit from no one. Not even yourself.

  4. Maintain a level of self-respect and dignity, even if it comes to the worst. Nobody will respect you if you don't respect your own self. And learn to leave from the table, when respect is no longer being served.

  5. Do not believe everything people say. Believe everything they do. As much as I am a lover of words, they can and do deceive. Understand people's intentions from their actions.

  6. Leave the past where it should be - in the past. Make peace with it. Don't spend too much time thinking what was and what should have been. What happened 10 years ago or 10 minutes ago, it doesn't matter now. What matters now is now. Make that count.

  7. Be stubborn, be bold, be rigid. Don't give up before you get what you want. Don't let anything get in the way of you and your goals. Do not let anyone take your dreams away from you. Hold on tight, you're so much stronger than you think you are.

  8. Do not compromise. Do not settle for something that does not meet your standards. You deserve more than ordinary. Do not settle for a 2BHK flat when what you really want is a penthouse. Strive for it. It'll take time, but you'll get there eventually. Do not settle for mediocre, especially when it comes to sex and life - they need to be great!


  9. Say "Fuck off" more often and to those who have wronged you. They don't deserve to be a part of your life. Some people grow up to become mature adults, others grow up to become assholes. Fuck them and forget them. It's in your best interest to do so. And they probably don't care, so why should you?


  10. Last of all, never let anyone belittle you. You are magnificent, you are more than anyone could ever be. Invest in becoming great. Invest in spreading greatness. As for those who underestimate and despise you, they can bloody well fuck themselves. 


    Chin up, head high, smile, raise your middle finger and get on with life. 


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